Parenting words of wisdom and advice from parenting expert, author, and television producer/host, Bill Corbett
What to do if Your Ex is Parenting Differently Than You
My wife and I noticed immediately how differently her teenage daughter behaves and treats us when she returns from a visit with her father. Oftentimes she is rude, abrasive, and immediately begins to complain about how our rules are stupid and how we are controlling her life. And why shouldn't she when her father has no rules. He shows up a couple of times a year to buy her favorite treats and give her gifts or money. Such is the case for so many parents whose children go to another parent's home for visitation. Some parents get similar behaviors from their children when they just go to a grandparent's home when discipline is handled differently. This is one of the frustrating challenges of the modern society... everyone doesn't parent the same. The times have changed and the ownership falls on the engaged parent to react in certain ways to the annoying behaviors we get when our child returns from a visit. Download my READY-TO-PRINT article HERE as a handout to share with others. It offers 5 things you can begin doing immediately.
There are two Web sites attracting more and more children
and teens that many parents are not aware of.These sites are a danger to children and parents need to know about them
now!One is Omegle and the other is Chat
Roulette, and they are both accessible from any Internet-enabled device, such as
computers, iPads, kindle-like reader devices, tablets, and even smart phones.
Cell Phone Kids Costume - Child Small These two sites are known as “video chat” Web sites and
can be accessed by anyone with an Internet accessible device. There is no security or sign up screens to go
through and nothing verifies the user’s age.
Anyone can simply go to the site and begin conversing with any random
person in the world without supervision or regulation. Law enforcement agencies in many cities have issued
warnings to parents to keep their kids off of these sites. The Web site boasts that it is a place where
meeting strangers is OK but cautions that it is for children 13 and up. It is becoming more of …
This is for all the parents who set out NOT to spank their
children, but end up doing it anyway; you are NOT bad parents, sometimes you just
don’t know what else to do. I believe you
may get frustrated to the point of using it to gain the child’s attention or as
an attempt to stop challenging behaviors immediately. I can say that I've been in your shoes! I raised 3 children of my own and often felt
myself get to the point of having the urge to spank. So I feel for parents and know how hard it is
when our children push our patience to the upper limits.
(Photograph courtesy of David Castillo Dominici and freedigitalphotos.net) I was the oldest of eight children and took notice of my
parent’s anger and how it would provoke them to the point of spanking, and they
did. I remember having the sense that
one or both of them would be bothered by something outside of my control and
then I would do something that kids do and it would push them to their breaking
point. I would get spanked…
If you’re seeing instances of your child getting pushed around by other children, does this mean that he may easily fall victim to bullies in the play yard? If it is your child doing the pushing and hitting, could she become the bully in later years? Experts agree that the traits children demonstrate during the “terrific two” period (18 months to 6 years) reveal some of the characteristics the child could possess as they grow up. Adults have the power to change some of the social interaction traits they see in their children with simple techniques for these formative years.
Visual schedules for young children. See them at: SchKIDules 1. Provide good examples Be sure that conflict resolution in relationships the child is exposed to, are healthy and positive examples she can learn from. The adults in a child's life are living, breathing models. It’s OK for adults to have respectful disagreements with other adults in front of the children, just be sure they see the follow up discussio…