DAY 6: FRAME A PICTURE OF THE TWO OF YOU

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14 DAYS OF TIPS FOR DEMONSTRATING LOVE TO YOUR CHILD

DAY 6: FRAME A PICTURE OF THE TWO OF YOU – Take a picture of you and your child, frame it, and then give it to your child to put in his or her room on the dresser or night table. If you have more than one child, create one for each of them. For an older child, put a picture of the two of you in a locket that the child can wear. This will also help calm a child who feels anxious when being away from the parent.

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