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I Wrote a Psychological Thriller. Yes, You’re on the Right Blog.

If you’ve been reading this blog for any length of time, you may have just done a double take. The Ovulation Murders? On a parenting blog? Yes. You’re in the right place. Since 2010, I’ve been writing about parenting, children, behavior, cooperation, discipline, communication, and the sometimes-messy business of raising human beings. I’ve taught parenting classes, coached parents, written books about raising cooperative children, hosted radio and television programs, produced podcasts, and written hundreds of articles intended to make family life just a little easier. So I completely understand if seeing a psychological thriller called The Ovulation Murders pop up here seems a little… unexpected. But there’s another side of my writing that many of my longtime readers may not know about. I’ve Always Been Fascinated by Human Behavior Long before I began teaching parenting, I studied psychology. What has fascinated me throughout my adult life is a deceptively simple question: ...

My Child Wants a Snake, but I Don't Like Them

What do you do when your child suddenly becomes fascinated with snakes, reptiles, or other creatures that make you uncomfortable? In my podcast Creating Cooperative Kids (click this title to listen to the audio podcast), I sit down with environmental educator and author Nancy Hopkins , better known as The Snake Lady , to discuss how parents can respond when their child's curiosity clashes with their own fears. Nancy shares practical advice on introducing children to reptiles in a safe and educational way, explains why many adults develop a fear of snakes, and offers simple strategies for exploring a child's interest without immediately saying "no." We'll also discuss her children's book, Sassy Green Tree Boa , and how storytelling can help both Nancy Hopkins, a.k.a The Snake Lady children and parents better understand these often-misunderstood animals. Whether you're a parent facing this dilemma right now or simply interested in learning more about repti...

Teaching Children to Wash Their Hands: The How and the Why

“Did you wash your hands?” “Yes!” “With soap?” Silence. If you’re a parent, you may know this conversation all too well. Teaching children to wash their hands sounds like one of the simplest parenting tasks imaginable. Turn on the water, add some soap, scrub, rinse, and dry. But there’s a big difference between knowing how to wash your hands and developing the habit of doing it without being reminded . And that’s really our goal. We don’t simply want children to wash their hands because Mom, Dad, or a teacher told them to. We want them to eventually recognize when handwashing is needed and take responsibility for doing it themselves. The best handwashing aid to use with children, on the market. Why Handwashing Matters Children explore their world with their hands. They touch toys, pets, playground equipment, doorknobs, floors, food, shared pencils, bathroom surfaces, and one another. Then those same little hands find their way to their mouths, noses, and eyes. Handwashing with soa...

Why Sharing an Activity With a Child Matters

Children may not always remember the toys they received or the television programs they watched, but they often remember the moments when an adult chose to sit beside them and enter their world. A shared activity—coloring a picture, completing a puzzle, baking cookies, planting flowers, or building something together—communicates a powerful message: You are important to me. I enjoy being with you. That message can have a lasting influence on a child’s confidence, sense of belonging, and relationship with the adult. Children Value Our Presence More Than Our Perfection Adults sometimes hesitate to participate in creative activities because they believe they are not artistic enough. They may say, “I can’t draw,” or “I’m not very good at coloring.” But children are rarely looking for artistic perfection. They are looking for participation. When an adult sits down, chooses a color, and begins creating alongside a child, the adult becomes a companion rather than an instructor. The experience...

When You’re Trying to Be the Parent You Never Had

Why firm, respectful parenting can feel lonely—and why it is worth continuing Sometimes the hardest part of parenting differently is not managing your child’s behavior. It is managing the opinions of everyone watching you. You decide not to give your child unlimited access to a phone, tablet, video game, or social-media account simply because “all the other kids have one.” You allow your child to express anger or disappointment without immediately punishing the emotion. You establish reasonable limits, follow through with consequences, and try to remain calm when those limits are tested. You want to raise your child with both firmness and respect. Then someone tells you that you are being too soft. Another person says you are being too strict. A relative insists that your child needs to learn who is in charge. A friend rolls their eyes when you explain your screen-time limits. Someone else tells you that children must experience everything eventually, so there is no point trying to pro...

Why I Built Cooperative Kids

Our jobs demanded long hours. Highway construction stretched our commute. Yard work never seemed to end. Weekends felt more exhausting than restorative. And inside our home, our three school-aged and preteen children seemed to be fighting more and cooperating less. Get the book that provides many answers. When we compared notes with other parents in casual conversations, we realized we weren’t unusual. We were normal. Busy. Stressed. Doing our best. But while I couldn’t do much about corporate deadlines or growing grass, I became increasingly focused on one question: How could I become a better father? I wanted our children to get along better. I wanted more cooperation. I wanted our home to feel less reactive and more connected. I quickly realized that yelling and punitive discipline weren’t producing the results I hoped for. In fact, they seemed to be making things worse. And I knew something else with absolute clarity: I did not want to repeat the patterns I had grown up with. My fa...

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